Comments on: Self Responsibility http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/ An Exploration of Creativity in Gardens, Art, and Energy Work Sun, 07 Sep 2008 02:33:40 +0000 By: Ausearth http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1705 Ausearth Sat, 03 May 2008 19:21:54 +0000 http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1705 Thanks again. I got screwed over as a child by the catholic church. It took a lot to undo there shame enslaving conditioning. I find It is necessary to avoid Catholics and those that call themselves Christian as they use shame to enslave. Now being responsible is about equanimity and caring honestly, being in the moment and leaving that God out of the equation. Thanks again.
I got screwed over as a child by the catholic church.
It took a lot to undo there shame enslaving conditioning.
I find It is necessary to avoid Catholics and those that call themselves Christian as they use shame to enslave.
Now being responsible is about equanimity and caring honestly,
being in the moment and leaving that God out of the equation.

]]> By: Patricia http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1677 Patricia Wed, 30 Apr 2008 14:10:17 +0000 http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1677 Dear Lexi, Great article. You are so right. I really don't have much to add. You said it just perfect. I'm quite good with self responsibility at different areas except relationships and right now I'm working hard on that specific issue. My past relationships have been troublesome for different reasons... the only common factor among them being this participant: ME. Right now I'm being responsible by not going on with a situation that I already know won't be healthy or enjoyable in the future. That responsibility comes along with pain for needing to stop something that have just started and looked promising in many ways. Being self responsible sometimes is hard at the moment you take your decisions or make your moves, but it's definitely the only way to go if you want to be the leader of your own life and get the results you desire in the long term. Thank you for your insights, today they meant a very good support to me. Have a great day, Patricia Dear Lexi,

Great article. You are so right.
I really don’t have much to add. You said it just perfect.

I’m quite good with self responsibility at different areas except relationships and right now I’m working hard on that specific issue.
My past relationships have been troublesome for different reasons… the only common factor among them being this participant: ME.
Right now I’m being responsible by not going on with a situation that I already know won’t be healthy or enjoyable in the future. That responsibility comes along with pain for needing to stop something that have just started and looked promising in many ways.

Being self responsible sometimes is hard at the moment you take your decisions or make your moves, but it’s definitely the only way to go if you want to be the leader of your own life and get the results you desire in the long term.

Thank you for your insights, today they meant a very good support to me.

Have a great day,
Patricia

]]> By: Alex Blackwell http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1675 Alex Blackwell Wed, 30 Apr 2008 11:44:06 +0000 http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1675 I can really relate to this post Lexi. Like you, I believe self responsibility is the key to finding the success, and happiness, we are looking for in life. The Universe will reward us when we avoid the victim role and embrace the choices we make - for better, or for worse. I can really relate to this post Lexi. Like you, I believe self responsibility is the key to finding the success, and happiness, we are looking for in life. The Universe will reward us when we avoid the victim role and embrace the choices we make - for better, or for worse.

]]> By: Lexi Sundell http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1671 Lexi Sundell Tue, 29 Apr 2008 17:05:39 +0000 http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1671 Ellie, That is beautiful! To move from victim into an empowered awareness is a huge transformation, spiritually, and on all other levels as well! Thank you for sharing... Lexi Ellie,
That is beautiful! To move from victim into an empowered awareness is a huge transformation, spiritually, and on all other levels as well! Thank you for sharing…
Lexi

]]> By: Ellie Walsh - Living the Law of Attraction http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1670 Ellie Walsh - Living the Law of Attraction Tue, 29 Apr 2008 16:12:41 +0000 http://www.energiesofcreation.com/growth-processes/self-responsibility/#comment-1670 Hi Lexi.... This is a Great Post! I love when you say "Being a victim is easy to justify, easy to prove to yourself. The victim mindset interprets any experience as additional proof of powerless and helpless existence, increasing the victim spiral." Years ago that statement would have pissed me off! That was when I was still struggling to understand my life and still hold onto my victimhood status! ;) I was so afraid to let go of my victimhood status - because - who then would I get to blame?! I would have to blame me! Ahhh - then I got it! Take blame and guilt out of the equation. There doesn't have to be blame or guilt - there only is people's perceptions and reactions.... I don't have to agree with other people - I don't have to like a situation - but I am in full control of how I perceive a situation.... When I let go of my victimhood - I took full responsibility for my life - which gave me full power over my life. That is a Freeing and Power-filled status to live in! ;) Hi Lexi….

This is a Great Post! I love when you say “Being a victim is easy to justify, easy to prove to yourself. The victim mindset interprets any experience as additional proof of powerless and helpless existence, increasing the victim spiral.”

Years ago that statement would have pissed me off! That was when I was still struggling to understand my life and still hold onto my victimhood status! ;)

I was so afraid to let go of my victimhood status - because - who then would I get to blame?! I would have to blame me!

Ahhh - then I got it! Take blame and guilt out of the equation. There doesn’t have to be blame or guilt - there only is people’s perceptions and reactions….

I don’t have to agree with other people - I don’t have to like a situation - but I am in full control of how I perceive a situation….

When I let go of my victimhood - I took full responsibility for my life - which gave me full power over my life. That is a Freeing and Power-filled status to live in! ;)

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