Is peace nothing more than the passive absence of conflict? Is it nothing more than relief and release from the stresses of physical life? If you look externally for peace, that may be the case. However, if you look internally, the reality may be altogether different.

Our physical lives are fraught with ongoing change. Forms come into being, change, and disappear, while new forms arise. This constant flux of destruction and creation is the ever-shifting foundation of our physical lives.

The view from such a strictly physical perspective emphasizes the absurdity of seeking peace. In this context seeking peace looks like nothing more than spiritual escapism. And in actual fact, many who earnestly follow religious or new age pursuits are indeed escapists.

Some people find the density of physical life to be so uncomfortable they want to leave it and pass into airy realms untethered to the messy business of life on earth. Their ideal state is nothing more than the passive absence of conflict, a truly ungrounded desire for release.

In our mentally driven culture, this could end the conversation about seeking peace. Logical slicing and dicing of the facts too often substitutes for the perspective of our integrated heart and mind, inevitably leading to flawed and incomplete conclusions.

I recently read Peace Is Not the Answer by the self styled spiritual teacher and guru Andrew Cohen. While he makes a few statements with which I agree, he entirely misses the deeper potentials of seeking peace.

From the mentally driven point of view, having easy access to all manner of physical consumer goods and relative freedom appears to eliminate any authentic need for seeking peace. Looking externally at the quest for peace in this manner leads away from the truth of the matter.

Ken Wilbur, one of the leading systems thinkers of our time, takes the view that our consciousness has evolved through levels of existence. He traces the resulting pathological development of our societies in an extremely lucid fashion, showing how each pathology has lead to greater pathology at the next level.

Having or not having access to consumer goods is clearly not the point. Distortions in development are far more significant. Humans need to clear as many of their own personal distortions as possible, but sooner or later run into group patterns of distortion that do not yield as readily.

Seeking peace internally is the essence of the quest for undistorted existence. Cohen does concede that peace is intrinsic to the underlying ground of reality, but apparently sees little use for it other than as an experience of freedom in meditation.

He derails into the idea that we are to be egoless and passionately involved with life. I have no problem with passionate involvement with life, but this assumption that the ego must be eliminated is more than a little questionable.

Among others, Eckhart Tolle has been advocating the death of the ego, but if you pay attention, he narrowly defines the ego as the distorted manifestations only. He states there remains a need for boundaries. And I see the ego as the vehicle devised to maintain appropriate boundaries and identity on the physical level.

The ego will serve best if cleared of distortions and then integrated in service to our inner connection with the divine, deeply grounded into our physical life on earth. This integration is not easily achieved.

However, once we start working with the divine core of ourselves, all things transform. This does not mean external peace in the sense of sudden absence of conflict or relief from the stresses of life. Instead it provides an altogether different way of working with physical form.

Without conscious centering in the inner core of peace, life is frequently experienced as chaotic and negatively distorted. Working from the inner core of peace, we can deliberately infuse the ever-changing forms of our physical lives with the qualities of peace, love and joy instead of fear and further distortions.

This is not a small matter. A profound experience of inner peace provides the means to create a higher level of physical existence itself, all in the face of the simultaneous destruction and creation of forms that remains the hallmark of physical existence.

Glory is a painting by Lexi Sundell and has been sold. Prints are available from the fine art gallery, RiverStone Gallery.

Copyright © Lexi Sundell 2008. All Rights Reserved.

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In this day when $20,000 weddings are average in this country and obsessed parents spend as much as $50,000 on a child’s birthday party, the impromptu wedding at my home last week was utterly refreshing.

I have no personal objection to spending money on fine quality and fine value, but I treasure essence over form. The trend in this country is to emphasize glamorous form, in all of its egotistic glory, as the way to celebrate weddings.

Brides become bridezillas, families painfully endure the process, and over half the marriages do not even last, despite the expensive hoopla surrounding their beginnings. I sometimes think the big celebration should be held only when the couple proves their marriage can endure!

Lost in all this obsession with form is the essence of a couple marrying, their desire to take their love into a lifelong commitment, the union of their special energies to create a life together. Instead of sharing a great heart centered joy, everyone is harried by the myriad details of a huge performance with all its trappings.

So I was delighted when Alan and Vickie came to my home to be married in my living room the other evening. Alan had called in the afternoon to ask if I could officiate at their wedding and they wanted to proceed as soon as I could fit it in my schedule.

Bern and I hastily tidied up the house and he made a simple dinner for all of us while I wrote a ceremony for Alan and Vickie. They arrived just as I had concluded the initial draft. They reviewed it and we changed a few things to more fully express their intentions.

We ate dinner together and then Gia arrived to be a witness for the ceremony. Alan and Vickie were far away from both their families, particularly Vickie’s as she is from Peru, so we were the entire wedding party.

We went into the living room and with a backdrop of wildly blooming geraniums on the window sill and a huge red poppy painting on the wall, I married them.

As this couple is highly aware energetically and both do energy healing, they were delighted with the idea of holding the ceremony within a Crystalline Consciousness session, to deepen the support for their loving intentions for each other. Alan and Vickie exchanged simple silver rings made in Peru as they said their vows.

They both were glowing in such a great open heart space that even my friend, the marriage cynic Gia, had nothing skeptical to say afterwards as we ate our strawberry desert!

Note about Lexi Sundell’s painting: “Poppy Fire” is acrylic on canvas 76″ wide by 48″ high. Other original paintings and prints available at RiverStone Gallery.

Copyright © Lexi Sundell 2007. All Rights Reserved.

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